Post retreat situation

[Marylov]

I Reread the section tonight and I think I really need to focus on two things, 1) not taking things personally and 2) not letting other people pressure me. I am starting to hear a lot of "why are you putting up with this" and it is making me question my resolve, and I shouldn't let it. I DO want this marriage to work, and even though my H is being very hurtful, I still think he is worth fighting for