Oh and one other thing you would want to check out is the Dear Peggy website. I think it goes hand-in-hand nicely with DBing...especially for those who are in recovery. At a later time, you and W might want to read some articles from Dear Peggy...particularly on how to recover from W's affair and getting past it.
In fact, I referred Train to that site. Both Train and her H did read some articles which promoted them to have some heart-to-heart discussions about her husband's A.
Remember Rome wasn't built in a day. One day at a time.
Just providing you with some helpful ideas for you and Mrs. Kieran.
