Thanks for the update. Yep, the hard work has just begun.
I STRONGLY urge you and W to make an appointment with MWD. There are some really bad MC's out there who can do some real damage. You want to interview MC's in your area and ask the following questions:
-What is your therapy approach? -What are your views about marriages that are troubled? -What is your ratio/percentage in saving marriages?
You would want to find a MC therapist who is solution-based and follows Gottman principles. Those kinds of therapists don't focus on re-hashing everything ad nauseam, but instead on a path forward in healing as a couple and rebuilding your M as a much stronger one.
Ya know what? We've had both LBS and WAS post here for extra support. Nop and Mrs.Nop along with Coach and Greek.
No judgment here.
Sandi, any other suggestions? Your experience as an ex-WAW would be extremely helpful here.
And I do hope you will keep coming here. Lord knows, you DO need support from us here.
