And fwiw, if W is just throwing things in the washing machine, I don't see a problem with you running a cycle once it's full. You can fold her stuff and place it in its own basket or something. I like how you handled the bigger issue with the scooter. Well done.
M: 40 H: 44 Married 14 years S11 & D6; D20 & D19 from previous M 2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart Piecing: April 2014