Just came out of IC session which is every week now. Spoke to IC about W request to meet to discuss some things and she agrees I should not meet her in person and it's fine to wait to even discuss via text or email. I told her i need to discuss taxes as I have to have everything in by Mar 1st this year. She wants me to send an email stating how I am proceeding with filing and what documents I need and by when. She said it's important to do it via email to have a record of the dialogue.
I told her i left message for L Friday but hadn't hear back so will contact them again. I still have anxiety about going to L but know it's a step I need to take. She said I am making progress and she sees it even when I may not realize it and that there is no time table, it's just important to keep taking steps and making progress.
Going to meet a friend of mine and possibly his wife for dinner. Feel a bit better after seeing IC and thankful I talk to her each week. My D22 year old texted me during session (she didn't know I saw IC today) to tell me I was the best dad she could have hoped for and she was thankful for all I did for her and the family and that the kids and I were still a family no matter what. Funny how your kid starts becoming the one to try and give you encouragement. I am blessed to have her as a daughter. I am blessed for all of my kids. I need to keep looking at what I have, not what I've lost.
Last edited by vdubber; 02/18/1510:10 PM.
M: 44 W: 45 Married 26 Together 28 D: 22, S: 18, S: 9, D: 7 S: 12/2013, seperate houses OM revealed first 10/2013, stopped seeing him OM revealed 1/2015, been going on for quite some time
