You were not being too harsh at all. Thank you so, so much for checking on me. I don't have much time now, so I hope to post later. You bring up some great points - wonderful advice.
When we do speak (very limited) I am upbeat without over-doing it (I think!). I am on my 17th week of counseling and take anti-enxiety medication daily as prescribed. I have read "You Can Heal Your Life" and found it very helpful.
The folks on this forum are right - you are amazing.
Thanks again 25. I'll try to add more detail later today or tomorrow.
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15