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[Mozza]

You did very well for a while there. I agree that last night wasn't so good. Some things you already know:

- Believe none of what they say. She's never loved you? Yeah, yeah...
- Make her doubt. Don't ever assure her of your undying love! It's the safety net for the A.
- Your message is that you know you'll be happy and are ready to move on.

Find Startsky309 around, he has great replies for establishing boundaries. He's big on respect, for instance. Also, have a look at the thread on boundaries.

It's quite amazing how much your WAW follows the script, after reading around these boards for months.

This will likely take a long time. Your behavior fits perfectly in her mental image that you're manipulating her for your own good. Honestly, she's not far from the truth this early in your sitch because, and that's just my opinion, but I doubt the changes would be permanent after such a short period. You tell her your changes are for you, but one day you'll have to believe it and not even think of her when you think of who you've become. Save yourself and you just might save your M.