Hey 4

I've had the wrath of wife tonight. I didn't engage which p1ssed her off even more. I just carried on bit my lip best i could and asked if she wanted cheese on her spag Bol. Lol I'm going to post about it shortly.
It's really hard I know. I'm leaving cos I just can't take any more. 6 months I've been battling before bd. Don't rise to anything. That's what they want. They goad you into it. Today when I came to do the washing she had left her thong in there(not worn one in years after child birth) that she will have worn for OM on val day. I just smiled to myself. now I'm mind reading here but I think this was on purpose. Goading me to say something. Get a rise from me. I won't react which no doubt p1sses her off even more.

Do people reconcile? Of course. Sometimes it's years later. That doesn't mean you hang around for years. It means you move on and if you both find your way back to each other then so be it. This is why I don't believe in making rash or ultimatum decisions now. Time. It's a healer. The old proverbs ring true.
Wifes aunt reconciled after 18 months apart and her falling in love with someone else right before divorce was signed But don't sit here banking on that happening because it might not. Live your life, it is what it is right now.

There was some girl on X factor uk this year whose parents were apart for 5 years before they got back together.


Me:40 W:35
D:8
T:13 M:10
WAW: 7/14
PA Discovered: 1/15 at least 6 months
Moved out and moved on