I am doing my best; most everything i do is for me. I will back off the car and make her pay for it. And once i get a consensus about my email response i will send that and decline the scooter. i have to be honest it kinda feels good to do alot of things around the house on my own. and i dont think she expected me to do those things. On the flip side she is expecting to come over this friday and groom the dogs! should i allow her to or should i groom them myself and cut her off at the pass. this has always been her job and they are both our dogs. but since i kicked her out i am the sole care taker accept for those 1 hour visits during the week. just curious as to how i should play that card. I am thinking it would be nice for the dogs to spend more time with her. they really do miss her. and i can tell they are missing her. so trying to look at what is best for them and not so much me putting it to her. what do you all think?