wife during deployment EA/PA Part 3

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Good job. Do as little as possible for her.
Although I have actually done her oil change finally. 4100mi over, I told her no before then she asked again a week later, she very busy I get it. So I told her, 'I'll do it but only bc we will most likely be bankrupt by the end of the year and I don't need us to pay for an engine damage right now'. Plus it got a sensitive topic for her to her very mad, and I don't need any more confrontation right not, it proved that it's not working at all. And i do t know why I felt obliged, maybe bc she is the bread giver and helped me a ton too, plus she doesn't use the vehicle to sleep with OM...

As long as you don't face escalation or so, just don't do sht for her! Especially she being with OM...hell no.