I would say no to laundry and working on the car. Big girl panties....
Would you take your neighbors car for an oil change? Nope! I bet they wouldn't even think to ask something like that.

Treat her like you would treat a neighbor.

Me: 35 husband:39
Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage
Twins 5 (boy/girl)
Daughter 3
Affair bomb 2/27/14
He moved in with ow 3/13/14
OW kicked him out 6/15/14
4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction