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[jim0987]

Hi gg,

I've just put the kids to bed and am taking 5 before commencing cleaning operations. I stop on on your thread and all kinds of stuff has happened, its revelations galore.

So quick précis of my reaction.
- way to go GG
- 37 isn't young, its firstly older than me and secondly is closer in age to you than your H. Besides it only matters to you two.
- 29 would do me nicely really though I think the bigger thing is where they are on their view of relationships. I think even up to mid 30s people still have a vision of love and marriage. I think that once people get passed that (and some do it much younger) they realise that divorce and kids and other stuff are just parts of peoples life story.
- I think edz is probably a good bar for gentlemanly conduct
- only share what your comfortable sharing, but a good IC is well worth it for the stuff that isn't comfortable. For the rest and nautical metaphor we are happy to oblige
- there's lots of reasons he may not have said much,but being mysterious and keeping the focus on you is right up there on the dating tips.
- it's a buffet, you can view, check and even taste if you like. Take it at whatever pace you like but remember a little fear (of the good kind) and apprehension is where the excitement happens.


Probably more but now I'm just putting the tidying off.