Thanks Mozza! I hope my story can help others here. I've been debating how to answer you. We are reconciled in the sense that we are both fully committed to our M. Our R feels much more stable than it did in the early piecing days. My hesitation comes from the fact that I'm not entirely over the pain. It's not present all the time. Just rears its ugly head now and then. I think I'd keep us as piecing until we get through the next few months of antiversary triggers.
Me: 30 H: 35 M: 5 years S2 Signs of MLC started Feb 2014 BD - PA July 2014 Piecing/reconciling late July 2014