I've been following your post for quite some time Complex. I need to update my story in the next couple days. I don't think that you are wrong not to trust her. My wife has been in a EA and PA since before October. I of course needed to find out the truth so I had GPS placed on her car. This confirmed everything for me. Well, she found the GPS at the end of December and since then has been giving be the silent treatment since as if placing a GPS on a car to confirm W's indiscretions is somehow worse than having an affair. I believe it hast to be defense mechanism on their part to hide guilt and shame. Just a few days ago, in the heat of an argument she said that she didn't trust me because of the GPS, which just shows that they will do anything and everything to protect themselves and their decisions.
I just noticed your timeline. Stopped wearing the rings. The plastic surgeries and then out the house.
Have you accepted that she had made a decision well before this and this is what she kind of planned?
