Thanks again Kat. So I was invited this morning to a lunch with W and her oldest sister at a nearby lunch spot. I was hesitant, but I sent up an "arrow prayer", W asked again, and I agreed.
LOL. W called back a half hour later, and canceled. This is 2 times this week that she's canceled lunch with me. She said a "guy" had a photo-shoot, and she can't turn down a job right now. I told her that was fine, and left it at that.
I guess I see where I rate with W. No, seriously I don't mind, though I do enjoy time with W's oldest sister, and they are both going thru a tough time right now because of MiL's health. They re-scheduled for tomorrow, which I likely will pass on - I have a previously scheduled lunch with my parents.