Thanks again Kat. So I was invited this morning to a lunch with W and her oldest sister at a nearby lunch spot. I was hesitant, but I sent up an "arrow prayer", W asked again, and I agreed.

LOL. W called back a half hour later, and canceled. This is 2 times this week that she's canceled lunch with me. She said a "guy" had a photo-shoot, and she can't turn down a job right now. I told her that was fine, and left it at that.

I guess I see where I rate with W. No, seriously I don't mind, though I do enjoy time with W's oldest sister, and they are both going thru a tough time right now because of MiL's health. They re-scheduled for tomorrow, which I likely will pass on - I have a previously scheduled lunch with my parents.


Me-54 yrs; W: 50 yrs
4 kids- D: 22,20,19; S:15
"Trial" Divorce: 04/14 - 6/14
Separated: 06/2013- divorced 08/2016

“The strongest of all warriors are these two — Time and Patience.” War and Peace