NOW... he texts me, "What are your plans for d14's birthday?"

UUUUGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHHHH.............


I don't want to respond! If I have to, I guess, "You can make arrangements with her for another day."

Does he really think I'm going to let him come here? No F'ING WAY!
I know d14 will be perfectly content doing something with him another day. And since s17's bday is in 6 days, he can take them out or something.

I just want him exercised from my life. Remove the evil!

I am not sure what to do about this one. Can't I just ignore? He runs, why can't I?