Well I put off engaging with w on finances as long as possible but I really need to get some things resolved this coming month (pay day on monday) so just emailed her.
Wont post the whole thing, stayed away from being mushy or being to accepting of anything (her financial issues now wouldnt be happening if she hadnt left but I have no desire to punish her or, worse, impact s) but also didnt want to go straight to hard edged and ruin our recent run of warm communications.
Effectively said I'll be making some changes at my end soon to get them straight and more manageable. I just want to know what w thinks is running out of the account and for how long or if its ongoing and if it can be settled if so for how much?
I said I know she has a lot on right now with work and various others making life difficult and I have no desire to be one of them or to just leave her with huge bills but I need to know what they are so I dont just cancel something thinking its no longer required. That money for s is in no way under discussion here and will continue. Asked her to let me know either to sit down and run through or to email me if she'd rather do it that way.
Said I wanted to make it clear there is no other motive here other than to try to structure my finances and I just want to ensure stability. That I look forward to us speaking again. Edz
So I wait to see if I will be hit with a rampage on being unfair, sorry that she hasnt sorted things or the far more likely, absolutely nothing!
Time will, I imagine, tell. Anyway off to swimming and then tescos (or swimming in tescos if the freezers have failed I suppose will be the same temperature either way )
Catch you all soon
Edz
M:44, W:46, S:10 M 13 years, T 15 BD:23/7/2014 W/S Moved to MIL: 23/7/2014 My new place: 21/11/2014 W/S back to flat 22/11/2014 W coming closer, talking 4/2015 Piecing 5/2015 Moving in again 6/2015
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