Tootling along.

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I don't think restating my boundary on OW is needed right now as H is actually telling me we're done and kind of asking me, are we done? And kind of reaching out?

Hi Toots

I think the above is the crux of it, he doesnt (to me reading what youve posted) seem to be making a statement of it's over as much as saying its over unless you think its not. May just be me misreading or something lost in translation though and I certainly wouldnt want to push false optimism, just seems to be put in a way thats open to interpritation.

I know my w started off with more or less well we're heading for divorce in two years (no fault admitted) see ya. And now we're, well bad example, I have no flippin clue!