barely holding on - 7

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Thanks again MrBond. I will answer these questions because I feel like these are things that I should be thinking about. I never wanted to think that I was in competition with OM, but that really is the case.

but first

There is movement with W and I'd like an opinion. Like I've said, I've been very dim with W for a couple weeks and was wondering if this is getting me closer to my goal. W was very removed when she came home from work last night and went right to the couch after sitting through dinner with me and the kids. I decided to let her be. Some time during the night W came to our bed and slept the rest of the night.

This morning I was sitting in the and W came in, sat next to me started crying a little and said "I've been thinking a lot". paused, She then said something like "I have called it off with OM" and called him by name which she never does. She sat and cried but would not look at me. She also never told me that before.

I did not know what to say - I sat with her and put my hand on hers for a minute. The kids were getting up so we went about our usual morning business.

I didn't respond to her in any real verbal way, and would like an opinion of what to do.