The other thing that confused me is I have seen others advice about their spouse leaving the master bedroom and sleeping in a separate room and they said it was their choice so they should get their own bed. I guess I thought of it as if she was moving out, I was not going to help her get an apartment. Or act like I am supporting the situation. Because this is not how I saw our marriage being. And the way we were with each other before all this started, I don't think she did either. We did not have a close relationship. We emailed each other all day. Texted each other. Flirted with each other constantly. Supported each other. Enjoyed each other. She could not wait for me to get home and I could not wait either. We spent alot of time together before all this stuff happened.
Me:44 EXW 44 Wonderful Children M11, T14 BD 6/14 OM Confirmed Divorce Final 2/25/16 "It works if you work it!"