Yes, job. I am pretty ticked about the tax thing. I, of course, thought of a knee-jerk reaction, but that would still give him what he wants.
So, I will use this frustration to keep me moving forward. I have to speak to another lady on Monday, but the girl I spoke to today was pretty sure there is nothing I can do but lose the exemption. (and NYS tax is the WORST!)
At least I can allow myself until then to relax, reassess, and figure out what to do about it. Pretty much, nothing. The only thing I could do is ask him to switch the deed, but I know how that will end. So it's really not even worth the effort or communication.
I think he may use the tax thing as an excuse to contact me, or he will avoid it knowing he is screwing me.