Yes, job. I am pretty ticked about the tax thing. I, of course, thought of a knee-jerk reaction, but that would still give him what he wants.

So, I will use this frustration to keep me moving forward. I have to speak to another lady on Monday, but the girl I spoke to today was pretty sure there is nothing I can do but lose the exemption. (and NYS tax is the WORST!)

At least I can allow myself until then to relax, reassess, and figure out what to do about it. Pretty much, nothing. The only thing I could do is ask him to switch the deed, but I know how that will end. So it's really not even worth the effort or communication.

I think he may use the tax thing as an excuse to contact me, or he will avoid it knowing he is screwing me.

Either way, right now, he gets nothing from me.