It's OK to supplicate (a LITTLE) in this stage, Rzr . . . so long as it's not done in violation of your core beliefs, values, integrity and such. You're going to have to lead her through this for awhile yet.
Try to insist on her EFFORT, but not on the RESULTS yet or even her FEELINGS at this point. As long as she's trying, and she's remaining faithful (NC) then you need to be patient.
Piecing sukks in a lot of ways, but if you guys can make it thru to the other side, it's sooooooo worth it.
