Hi Toots, I would hold off asking, if he is, is that the end for you ? if he says no, can you believe him ? I know you keep upto date with my sitch (very kind, thank you) and my W still denies OM is anything but a good friend. I have asked her to just tell me when we are on our own and she can deny it 5 mins later but just to let me move on, she still denies it.
Asking could set back any pro M thoughts he is having or put you in a worse place.
