I guess I am really confused. I see your point. That is why I have been having trouble with this. I do not want to sleep in separate beds the rest of our marriage. What kind of a marriage is that? Having separate rooms, sleeping apart and no intimacy. Right now I am doing something to help her. She has wanted a new vehicle for awhile now. I am helping her get it because I have been at my job longer and make more money. She wants to pay for it, but I put my name on the loan to help her get it. She deserves it. The separate room thing to me is something that will hurt our marriage. Not help it.
Me:44 EXW 44 Wonderful Children M11, T14 BD 6/14 OM Confirmed Divorce Final 2/25/16 "It works if you work it!"
