No problem Leon. I think it's up to you anyways - but I can't see anyone complaining "my H - he's terrible - cooks for me every night - just awful!"

Do what you think is right. If you're doubtful, you could always say - hey, I'm making fajitas for me and the kids - want some?

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus