OTU, I'm sorry things are so tough right now. It may well be a relief to S and give you a better chance to move forwards. Sorry to butt in, but Starsky, things seem to have reached a critical point in my sitch today - see posts from this morning. If you have any wisdom to offer, I'd welcome it.
Toots :-)
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus