Hi Edz, you sound very much like I feel. Your W leaving doesn't appear to be the happy ending she thought it might be. I hope I don't annoy any of the ladies on here but could your W be in a perimenopause state, I don't blame my sitch on my W going into perimenopause, (as confirmed by doctor) but I do think it was a major contribution to it. As you say the ball in in her court and you can only work on yourself. It does seem tough though, you spend most of your life with someone, go through all the ups and downs of that time and then they leave, don't seem to be living the dream but don't want to comeback. I suppose we can only see it through our eyes and if we could see it from their view we might understand more. I will post on my thread a little upset yesterday between W and S19. It's one of those things that my old W would have moved heaven and earth to avoid for S19 sake but now ?
I have a cousin that was had a WAW who was gone for over a year a they have been reconciled for over 7 years now and looking strong. Up until 1.5 months before she camback she wouldn't even look him in the eyes. Always hope my friend, always hope.
