Thanks so much Gan. I've had some helpful advice so far - and some vet wisdom would be great.
Weird after so much down time in my sitch that things are moving now. It's like DBing is a revision period and the exam has arrived and I need to not forget everything I've learned.
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus