Sorry, but only a couple of trusted friends know exactly everything.
It took me about 10 to even tell anyone I was so ashamed I hadn't spoken up. Then if you look at truely abusive r, mine had all the hallmarks.
Totally text book. H used my needs and feelings as control methods to get what he wanted. Given the way h behaved, I'm pretty sure this ow was not the first.
In this family men make the infedelity mistake and the women make excuses and cover. H cousin, as I explained he in his way was a preditory man, looking for the next ow. H and him are close. The plan I am pretty sure was h expected me to be plan b.
With ow as plan a. Once I didn't cover or lie, I'm history.
The family closed ranks. Mil acted "as if" I was dead or ever happened.
This is why I'm so focused on being switch on. Holding value, which is something I dint really do with h, I thought I did. The stich shows otherwise.
M 46 h54 Both married before T 11y Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads! Ms 18 hs 26
