Thanks so much all. I just emailed him along the lines of what I suggested above, but incorporating your suggestions Susana. Not done anything other than think about my sitch this morning and it's noon now! Think I'll get out for a walk now. I'll update you when there's further news.
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We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus