Your doing the right thing. You are working on you. We have to remember DB is not so much about saving your marriage as it is about saving yourself. It is her loss if she decides never to recommit. You have to remember that. Keep focusing on you buddy. In the long run that will get you through to the other side. Definitely don't send any needy emails. Its hard I know. I feel like doing the same. You feel like bloody shaking them to wake them up somehow. It wont work. Be the best you can be. If you wrote an advert for a dating site what would it say? That you are still sat around wishing your wife would come back and you never go out and your miserable? Not going to get much interest. Or that you are super fit, in great shape, love biking camping, outdoors and trying new things. That would be the one that gets all the hits. It is out of your control what your wife wants to do.
chin up we all have days worse than others.
Me:40 W:35 D:8 T:13 M:10 WAW: 7/14 PA Discovered: 1/15 at least 6 months Moved out and moved on
