Patience Ggrasshopper I think Toots is on the right track by validating about the job loss and holding off on the rest. Seeing the L before responding about the house sale is a wise decision and H may feed you more info out of desperation before then. It's been several months; what's another couple of weeks?
Me: 31, W: 29 T: 4 M: 2 Kids: 3 (SS: 7, SD: 4, D: 3) Separated, still living together: Nov 2013 Separate bedrooms: Feb 2014 W working away; kids with me: Nov 2014