Patience Ggrasshopper smile I think Toots is on the right track by validating about the job loss and holding off on the rest. Seeing the L before responding about the house sale is a wise decision and H may feed you more info out of desperation before then. It's been several months; what's another couple of weeks?


Me: 31, W: 29
T: 4 M: 2
Kids: 3 (SS: 7, SD: 4, D: 3)
Separated, still living together: Nov 2013
Separate bedrooms: Feb 2014
W working away; kids with me: Nov 2014