Thanks all - will reply a bit later when I have a proper keyboard. Its Option A for now...
Toots - I just posted on your thread. I do hope you get some input from a vet (e.g. Wonka) as it seems like a bit of a critical point for you. Not sure if the vets are ever over in the infidelity forum, so sending out a bit of a plea here.
Mozza - maybe you can put out a call to Wonka on your thread? I know she is on there a bit.
H 37 Me 36 Together 15 years Married 5 years No kids BD Apr 2014 H moved out 2 Jun 2014