Thats a lot to process. Its beyond my sitch so I can only offer my own thoughts not experience of this so any vets should obviously supercede my advice.
Are you going to return the email with a brief reply and suggest you meet up to talk through some points? If so just keep the reply warm raise the points you mention and suggest meeting up somewhere to talk through what each of you wants to happen, I wouldn't fall into my personal pitfall of seeing an ending yet, I think or thought, everything was "the end" it will be when it is it isn't yet. Unless I've misunderstood he still hasn't mentioned d so I think there are options to be explored, this is of course if thats what you want.
I think being supportive and warm is good (basically my mantra right now) but be sure to stay true to your message that this isn't what you want.
Hang in there toots
M:44, W:46, S:10 M 13 years, T 15 BD:23/7/2014 W/S Moved to MIL: 23/7/2014 My new place: 21/11/2014 W/S back to flat 22/11/2014 W coming closer, talking 4/2015 Piecing 5/2015 Moving in again 6/2015
