Well ladies and gents, I've been talking to my friend again. We got to talking a bit and dating her is a no go. I asked her to lunch again and got denied. I won't ask again. I just don't get it. I've never had a woman act the way she does towards me. She pretty much told me something like:

I see you as a friend, and respect you, it's only fair that I make it clear that I don't want you to hold out hopes for anything beyond friendship.

I told her no worries and that I'd still like to be her friend. The one girl that I could actually see myself with and was starting to have feelings for but....

I just don't understand....


Currently:
M 56 XW 57
Sons 38,33,31,29

The Sitch:
Married 26 years
EA w/ OM 9/10
Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary)
Sep 12/10
She wants D 1/11
W files 5/11
D final 10/11
XW marries OM 6/13