I thought everything was okay....(Part 4)

[MCS]

Thanks, I guess your right; it has gotten better and not worse. Its been going against what I would have done if I hadn't found DR and LRT; so I guess I have been doing it. I guess for me, it feels like I'm at the point that I can start to formulate a DB plan. Maybe a call to a coach is in my future, IDK.

What I see now, is that you are trying to rush things..........

Slow it down. It took you....how many months? 6 months to get to this point? don't rush it and keep letting things naturally progress (I need to take my own advice)

Yep, you are exactly right. It was one of those things that the last day or so, I've felt that I needed to do something, but I know better but wasn't admitting it to myself. So, I came and posted and you and V told me what I needed to hear. Like I said, I don't believe in coincidences anymore; there's stuff deeper than that. After I posted, I called my mom....know what she said even prior to mentioning I was getting antsy to do something...."MCS, be patient; everything has fallen into place w/o you needing to interfere. Trust your faith." So all of you folks are saying the same thing, at the same time. Its uncanny how in sync everyone is in all the different aspects of my life. Thanks a lot.

What is going on with W and OM? Ive read in a few posts that she seems to have let off of that? But you're not sure if they still are in contact?

No Clue.....She hasn't said anything to me at all. The kids don't mention him being over there. However, I think if things were progressing, now that she has a house that he would be over there more (or move in.) Also, I'm at the point that I'm detached enough that I really don't care with the exception of knowing that I can't really expect anything about working on our R with him in the picture. They work in the same building, so there's little chance of absolutely NC with him which will make this hard. I look back and I really do think my biggest issue was exposure of him to our kids. At a minimum (if their A is still going) it seems like she has honored this request; so I'm happy about that.