Not necessarily, my friend. We have a lot more control over our futures than we think. That's the whole point of DBing, yes? The notion that ONE person can save a M (it takes one to tango) ... ?
My actions matter. Your actions matter. Scary stuff, actually.
But, yes, we DO have some control over our futures.
I'll make a deal with you, Jefe: I'll work real hard on my resentments if you promise you'll work on understanding that you have more control over your future than what you think you do.
Deal?
I just spit on my hand. Wanna shake on it?
Thank you, seriously, for your words tonight. I value them all so much.
M: 40 H: 44 Married 14 years S11 & D6; D20 & D19 from previous M 2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart Piecing: April 2014