The future is going to bring whatever it brings

Not necessarily, my friend. We have a lot more control over our futures than we think. That's the whole point of DBing, yes? The notion that ONE person can save a M (it takes one to tango) ... ?

My actions matter. Your actions matter. Scary stuff, actually.

But, yes, we DO have some control over our futures.

I'll make a deal with you, Jefe: I'll work real hard on my resentments if you promise you'll work on understanding that you have more control over your future than what you think you do.

Deal?

I just spit on my hand. Wanna shake on it? wink laugh

Thank you, seriously, for your words tonight. I value them all so much.


M: 40 H: 44
Married 14 years
S11 & D6; D20 & D19 from previous M
2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart
Piecing: April 2014