Thanks, its what I needed. I guess I'm getting antsy that we just passed our 6 month mark, she seems to be out of her 'fog' somewhat and our communication is slightly better. I'm just writing some of these things because I see a change in her recently and I feel like 'now' is where I can start DBing because the NC that she implemented seems to be lightening up.
Another piece is that I think I'm regressing because I'm holding back moving on. I can feel that I'm moving over to the point that my patience now is to try and keep my family together and not necessarily all for me and her. I guess that's not a bad thing.
My problem is that I don't know what to do right now. I guess its just waiting, but I'm not sure. Our MC got canceled today for snow, so I guess my time this week to interact is gone. Part of me wants to test the waters, by asking her if she wants to grab lunch or something, but I'm not sure if that would make her back-pedal. I guess I'm just trying to figure out what I can do to help along her regaining her trust in me, as I see that is the first step we need to make. Interestingly enough, regaining our trust in each other is what she said she thought we needed back in Oct. when we talked that weekend. That's why we made the MC appointment. However, when we got there; she said it was just about custody and logistics. Maybe she was right, but not ready to start working on our trust up until recently.
Last edited by MCS; 02/18/1504:38 AM.
M:36 W:37 T: 15 M:11 S6 D5 BD: 8/10/14 IDLY: 8/12/14 S: 8/13/14 (she left, I stayed w/ kids) D Mentioned: 10/15/14 Confronted about OM: 10/15/14 EA: ~4/13 PA: ~10/13 She filed: 8/15 (not final)
