Anyway, I was thinking how he was playing the lotto every time and was really hoping that it would solve his problems.
And, he would talk, still about escaping. Moving away or moving off the grid.
When I read this, I thought you were talking about my H, LOL. He used to say that lotto is for people who are bad at math, but nevertheless kept buying the tickets. And “moving off the grid”… Yeah, my H wanted to live in Mexico, away from everything, having a simple live, without a phone and computer… I guess it must have changed recently, because now he is on Facebook, connected to people from who knows where and in constant touch. And… he is using Facebook on his phone! I cannot believe it is H I used to know.
Yes, I think your xh has a long way to go. And I bet you will get a lot more “random” texts. You are doing great job of not engaging. I think this is little step towards staying out of his mess.
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state