I am very happy to hear that you are back together! That is just awesome.
I reconciled with my W in 06 after we were D'd in 05, then we remarried in 07. I learned a lot DBing the first time around, however I didn't stick around the forum. That was a monstrous mistake because I'm right back here again. I opened my mouth too many times making comments about the past hurts.
I hope you stick around because it will keep you on the right path. Don't fall off the path like I did.
Jbird
M 53 W 44 D25 D20 S22 PA 10/95 BD abt 2k EA BD 9/2004 PA D'd 1/05/05 DB'd 9/2004-08 PA ends 02/2005 XW rehab 03/2005 piecing until OM3 June?/2005 Remarried 12/28/07 BD 12/18/14 Sep living together