I'm looking forward to hearing about your date! No pressure on yourself or him either Expect nothing, as tho it was first time you ever saw him, and enjoy it! Sexy it up, (moderately). Like on a real date?
It is all a rough road, any direction it goes now (my Experience and all the other paths on these boards - no one as far as I can tell is like, 'oh yeah, the estranged person who used to be my spouse, that's all fabulous...'
Just brace for bumps. Speaking as someone who's own expectations and lack of effective detachment is getting in the way of happily bumping along.
Mid 30's Psych-abusive M with violent tantrums from XH D 9/15; NC forever on
Expect nothing, as tho it was first time you ever saw him, and enjoy it! Sexy it up, (moderately). Like on a real date?
