Its been 11 days of pretty much no contact. At least for me. He will call or text very friendly and I will text back a few words. No hi how are you? back from me. He called me 2 times in a day last week I only texted a few words back. Today, I got the hi how are you? bla bla bla. I just texted back OK. I know that doesn't seem like much nc but in the year since separatation we have never gone more than 3 days we text/talk multiple times a day. Not always pleasant. It's taking all I have but I'm doing it and will continue. I can't go on the way we've been. He knows I'll always be here and also talk to him. No more!
M15 T19 D13 S13 BD Affair 9/13 S 11/13 D started 6/14.. dropped court date 10/14 H attorney can't get it together. Still with long distance ow. Still hates me.
