4mend, you are so kind. I think you are very smart to have stopped doing the laundry ... and to have met with a L. Knowledge is power.
What can you do today to make your sitch better? This is a wise question. I needed this reminder. THANK YOU.
Only thing I thought when I read it was why not go to the knick knack shop even if there was a closing time you were butting up against? Sometimes I wonder if we sabatoge our own outcomes because we presume what will happen? Yes. You're exactly right. I was being a cry-baby because H wasn't "acting" too excited. He seemed rushed. I should have gone. We would have ended up having a great time. And I would have eaten something good instead of peanut-butter crackers for dinner! LOL. I stand in my own way a lot.
Thank y'all so much for the pats on the back. I needed them this week. You guys rock.
M: 40 H: 44 Married 14 years S11 & D6; D20 & D19 from previous M 2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart Piecing: April 2014