W still having PA with OP

[4mendmj]

Thanks mvgfwd2. As you are new, the actual posting was delayed so wanted to acknowledge now I see your responses and appreciate them. I did inded purchase at Target this morning two laundry baskets and put all of her dirty clothing into them and put them into her room this morning. I like your idea about re-decorating the bedroom too...for me. It is our bedroom and yet she left it yet she comes in there all the time as her closet and shoes and underwear drawer etc. are all still in there. Just another ackward moment in the 4mendmj home that I smile each time so as to not look uncomfortable. W messaged me this evening asking if the laundy in her room was dirty or clean...I simply responded dirty. I of course did not get a response of appreciate back nor do I expect any courtesy for the next # of days but you are all right. Why am I pampering or caring for or cleaning up behind a messy WAW? I am not. I have stopped and I instead spend that time doing something for me.

Need to come up with another cool thing for tomorrow. I see a lot about buying new clothing on here. Might just buy a new cool looking shirt for me tomorrow and walk the mall with a pretzle or something...for me.