"In the past I have been selfish and not put her first or her feelings."
You still are. When you told her that her sleeping in the other room was "silly" you pretty much downplayed what she felt AGAIN. It seems like when there's something she wants to do (like sleep in another room) if you're against it, you debate about helping her.
Is this how your M has been?
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
