I think it would be fine to reach out to her family, they are still your family too. You are reaching out due to concern, not because you are trying something with your wife. That is where the focus comes in. You focus on what is good for you and your kids. There is the difference.

You don't pine over whatever wife may or may not be doing,

I will keep her and your families in my prayers. Blessings.

kat


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