Guys, a little hope is a dangerous thing. When you have hope, you tend to have expectations, and you should have NONE. Because EXPECTATIONS lead to HEARTACHES and our poor tormented hearts have been through a lot. Keep in mind, that we only get one heart and we should take care of it.
I found it best to give it all to the higher power and move along your own path, because move along your path you must. Do not stop, do not wait for her to follow. She might, or she might not, but one thing is certain, if you stand still you will not go forward and neither will she. Mozza knows that you CANNOT nice her back, you CANNOT LOVE her back to you. IT DOES NOT WORK! You can try, but you will just waste a couple of months of quality time that you should spend on yourself. I know I might be just whistling dixie to you, but make a note of my reply and get back to me in 3 months' time.
LOVE YOURSELF FIRST. YOU MATTER. You should be the most important person to YOU, but we LBSs tend to take care of ourselves the worst... I'm sure you can think of 10 examples of how you would give an arm and a leg to get your W back, but hardly any where you treated yourself kindly...
MOZZ, I am following you around on this board and you offer great advice to fellow travelers, but I have also noticed, that you are not so good at following your own advice. I see that a lot, also in myself...
MAHH, just be the best dad you can be, focus on yourself, improve yourself, work on becoming the man that only a fool would leave. It might not get your W back, but it will get YOU back. The new and improved YOU. And lord knows there is a lot of room for improvement in all of us and the best we can hope to achieve is to improve a little each and every day. That's how you become a great man.
