I totally get it, the fact they become so self absorbed I often wondered at times with myself if I was feeling for us both, sad on both sides for the state of the M, angry for both sides for the damage done ... because our MLC'rs do not seem to have a clue that we are on the same spiining globe with them, as far as they are concerned its all about them and they honor us or our kids when they feel the need. Its very very frustrating.
As far as your dream ... I lived it, it was reality .. .and just to let everyone know, if your spouse leaves you, you are separated, there for the affairs do not count. Thats the rule, or so at least I have been told. There is a evil part of me, the one with the twisted sense of humor that thinks IF this M ever survives ... I will celebrate by going on vacation with W and S, see a hottie at the bar .. get her drunk .. inform W we will be separtated for the night ... ya know .. cause thats the rule and all ..... lol .. hey its a little fantasy I like to laugh about.
Mleigh ... you are on vaca, I am sure the H will take care of the dog, your cat is in good hands ... there is little you can do as you said, however there is something you can do .... enjoy that time away, make memories .. your kiddo is lucky to have a strong mother who has her chit together ... Have fun!!!
H is all alone and needs to be, let him sort his stuff out ... dude is in full replay mode and that's the hardest one it seems, let him to his work, you be you and just stay awesome.
