My W is being "propped up" by so many people in her decision and not one of them really cares about me or sees D as a bad thing. What I need is more friends and allies!!
Getting more of the people you know on your side won't help, I'm afraid. You might be interested to know that in my situation, pretty much all my W's friends/family told her to give our relationship another shot. You know what she did? She distanced herself from all of them and started talking to more distant relatives and strangers instead. It seems the need for confirmation bias is stronger than social bonds when you're really hurt. What I don't know at this point is what causes a WAS in this state of mind to come down from it.
Me:31 W:31 D:6 T: 9/2001 M: 1/2009 W unhappy: 6/14 W moves to parents: 10/14 W wants D (angry): 12/14 W okay w/ S: 2/15 W wants D (calm): 2/15 W gets new job/place: 3/15 W admits PA, suggests MC: 8/15
