So W texted me this morning saying she would like to meet and discuss some things when I have time. I am almost positive she is going to ask me to file for D. I am not quite sure how I want to respond to her text as I would like to know the topics ahead of time so I can mentally prepare myself for our discussion...
Hi vdubber, is there anything good that can come from sitting down and talking to your W? IDK, I think putting it off for a while makes sense. This has the advantage of calming her down if this is an 'emotional' need for her to try and get something down "now".
Perhaps asking W what she wants to talk about beforehand makes sense, to help YOU be emotionally prepared. But it also shows a bit of weakness. You are the self-confidant guy who is ready for anything, right? I get wanting to see W to take a temperature check. But why not wait a week or two, and then set the meeting when you want to meet.