Originally Posted By: vdubber
So W texted me this morning saying she would like to meet and discuss some things when I have time. I am almost positive she is going to ask me to file for D. I am not quite sure how I want to respond to her text as I would like to know the topics ahead of time so I can mentally prepare myself for our discussion...


Hi vdubber, is there anything good that can come from sitting down and talking to your W? IDK, I think putting it off for a while makes sense. This has the advantage of calming her down if this is an 'emotional' need for her to try and get something down "now".

Perhaps asking W what she wants to talk about beforehand makes sense, to help YOU be emotionally prepared. But it also shows a bit of weakness. You are the self-confidant guy who is ready for anything, right? smile I get wanting to see W to take a temperature check. But why not wait a week or two, and then set the meeting when you want to meet.

But you know best. It's just my 2 cents worth.


Me-54 yrs; W: 50 yrs
4 kids- D: 22,20,19; S:15
"Trial" Divorce: 04/14 - 6/14
Separated: 06/2013- divorced 08/2016

“The strongest of all warriors are these two — Time and Patience.” War and Peace